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[心情] What a hypocrite!

What a hypocrite!

Today is one day after the California Court “unbanned” same sex marriage.

I suppose to celebrate like rest of the les/gay in the city, but this evening I totally do not have a mood.

my 2nd sister congratulated me.  

2nd sister: I am so happy for you, little sis.

Me:  thanks!  

2nd sister: By the way, big sister said this November election, she will for sure vote yes on “banning” same sex marriage.  

Me: huh?  What do you mean? Did she serious?  

2nd sister: yes, she did.  

Me: what the hell she talked about? She knew my ‘status’ and she likes my wife very much and why she votes against my kind?  

2nd sister: you know your big sister never likes gay people!  

Me: I am gay people!  She knew it all these years!  

2nd sister: well, it does not make her "not" to go against gay!  

2nd sister paused and continued: you know your big sister, she acts kind of gay even mom “said” so.  

Me: I know; she is crazy about woman all these years. She actually acts gayer than me!  

2nd sister: well, she is kind of weird.  

Me: I guess she tries to ‘distance” from any gay people, and her way is going against me. What a hypocrite!  :mad:

After conversation, I felt so depressed.  I “knew’ my big sister, she ‘never’ really “like” about my relationship, but I thought after all these year (8 years) she might changes little bit.  After hearing this response, I know I am just being naïve.  

Same sex marriage in California will have a difficult battle in the up coming months, we are not only battling with punch of  religious/conservatives, we also needs to battle with those “closeted” hypocrites (they are gay but not claimed to be gay like my big sister), they are the one which we should aware of.  Because you never know when they would turn back and go against you.

[ 本帖最後由 Greg 於 2008-5-17 15:29 編輯 ]


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= =
看到妳這篇文章

我覺得很無言

請問..
你是不能打中文嘛?
你的英文..有待加強
如果是因為不能打中文而打英文的話..
就..不好意思誤會你囉..
我是拉比 xD

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did you ever see me type chinese in any post?  thanks for your comments, anyway!

What I wrote was just my expression, a record of dialogue; it has nothing to do with methodology of English grammar.  

My topic is about same sex marriage and your comment has nothing to do with it.  If you are here just criticizing others (English writing), you should go to that particular BBS, may be I can come by and give you some of my comment.
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原帖由 huga-shaga 於 2008-5-17 16:05 發表
= =
看到妳這篇文章

我覺得很無言

請問..
你是不能打中文嘛?
你的英文..有待加強
如果是因為不能打中文而打英文的話..
就..不好意思誤會你囉..
[ 本帖最後由 Greg 於 2008-5-18 02:03 編輯 ]
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雖然他了解你的情況,無論他實際上如何,他也有權利表達他的立場,只是你們已經這麼久了,感覺是蠻傷的
我沒跟家人出櫃,不過就算出櫃了,台灣有公投這議題的話,我想我媽還是會投反對票
我尊重他的決定,但同時,我也請他尊重我的決定。
台灣這部分還差得遠哩,比較起來你還是幸運多了,加油吧。

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thank you!  I am totally agreed with you!  
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原帖由 badhairday 於 2008-5-18 00:59 發表
雖然他了解你的情況,無論他實際上如何,他也有權利表達他的立場,只是你們已經這麼久了,感覺是蠻傷的
我沒跟家人出櫃,不過就算出櫃了,台灣有公投這議題的話,我想我媽還是會投反對票
我尊重他的決定,但同 ...
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Greg
  有時候我會思考著~人類真的是上帝創造嗎?既然創造了又為了什麼要給人類思考的能力
  然後再用一堆有的沒有的限制~~再繼續打破那些限制~~周而復始重覆著~
  為何人類總是要活得那麼複雜~然後被迫要接受它的限制~
  當然如果同性可以合法化結婚是好事~
  只是我會想婚姻的意義在哪裡!它的定義是做什麼~只是為了法律保障嗎?
  又為何規定婚姻就必須一男一女~~才能合法化~~因為一男一女可以生小孩嗎?
  基本上以前的限制本來就是很刻板又歧視充滿霸權的制度

  也祝福Greg跟妳的另一伴真的可以合法結婚~~^^

[ 本帖最後由 chu9066082 於 2008-5-18 10:44 編輯 ]
妳不認識我!沒關係!
從這一刻開始~
我們就開始認識彼此吧!

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原帖由 chu9066082 於 2008-5-18 10:42 發表
Greg
  有時候我會思考著~人類真的是上帝創造嗎?既然創造了又為了什麼要給人類思考的能力
  然後再用一堆有的沒有的限制~~再繼續打破那些限制~~周而復始重覆著~
  為何人類總是要活得那麼複雜~然後被迫要接受 ...
chu9066082    這陣子好像常在帖上常看到您 實在忍不住的回.....

如果...人真的是所謂的 "上帝" 創造的(在這個假設前題下)

上帝大概是想挑戰自己 所以才創造了人吧
  (從人類的歷史到人類對這個地球的貢獻...我打的上述大句話應該就....不太過份了吧...)
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原帖由 Greg 於 2008-5-17 15:18 發表

What a hypocrite!
...
Greg

要是我...在當下...一定是很沮喪很傷心....
最常相處的親人 反而是最不瞭解自己的人

可能是我跟父母不親, 所以會有以下的觀念...
我真的覺得任何人都沒有權去管我是否跟女人交往(哪怕是最深的血親)

若他們真的要干涉
是不是我真的合他們意了 跟男人結婚生子了
但日後有個很不幸的婚姻
我可以把這筆帳算到他們頭上?

而且我也很討厭 那些 用自己狹隘的觀念 去批評別人的人 他們算什麼?



不管能否在法律上得到婚姻的證明
都希望妳們能幸福歐


                           咦?! 我需要用英文回覆嗎!? 中文可以嗎!?

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原帖由 Greg 於 2008-5-18 00:49 發表
did you ever see me type chinese in any post?  thanks for your comments, anyway!

What I wrote was just my expression, a record of dialogue; it has nothing to do with methodology of English gr ...
對不起啦..不是故意的
我是新手
我沒遇過你..
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Ducky , thank you very much!     if one day my wife and i could legally get married, you the first one on my list I will invite, beside 03, freedom, crazybirdy, etc   
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原帖由 chu9066082 於 2008-5-18 10:42 發表
Greg
  有時候我會思考著~人類真的是上帝創造嗎?既然創造了又為了什麼要給人類思考的能力
  然後再用一堆有的沒有的限制~~再繼續打破那些限制~~周而復始重覆著~
  為何人類總是要活得那麼複雜~然後被迫要接受 ...
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